Tems Shares Relationship Dealbreakers, Lists Men She Can’t Date or Marry
Story: written by Daniel December 9,2025
Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi, famously known as Tems, has opened up about the qualities she cannot tolerate in a romantic partner.
In a recent interview with Complex, the Love Me Jeje singer revealed that she avoids men who are unfriendly or lack curiosity about their partner.
“Anyone who isn’t trying to be your friend is a red flag. Anybody who isn’t curious about you is also a red flag,” Tems said.
“Because what are we doing? Why are we here if you don’t want to know me? If he or she doesn’t want to know more about you, end the relationship.”
Tems described herself as a “lover girl” but emphasized that she is cautious in matters of the heart due to past experiences. She added that her current focus is on self-love and personal growth.
