Tems Says She Prefers a God-Fearing Partner for Marriage, Emphasizes Growth and Accountability
Story: written by Amarachi April 2,2026
Award-winning Nigerian singer Tems, whose real name is Temilade Openiyi, has shared her thoughts on marriage, saying she values personal growth and accountability over emotions alone.
In a recent interview with media personality Angie Martinez, the Grammy-winning artist explained that marriage should be viewed as a commitment that goes beyond feelings and should be approached with maturity and understanding of its challenges.
Tems noted that marriage is not always smooth, adding that people should be prepared for difficult times and ensure they choose partners who align with their values.
She emphasized that she prefers a God-fearing man as a life partner because such a person is likely to be accountable and guided by higher principles.
According to her, accountability is key to sustaining love in a relationship, as it ensures commitment even during tough moments.
Tems explained that if a person is not answerable to any higher authority, they may lack the discipline required to remain committed in a long-term relationship.
She further stated that marriage should contribute to personal development, describing it as a journey that helps individuals grow and become better versions of themselves.
“Marriage is not just about love, it’s about compatibility and growth,” she implied, noting that it should bring out both the strengths and challenges in a person while fostering evolution in character.
