“5 Things You Should Never Do for a Man Until He Marries You”
By Okafor Joseph Afam
December 10, 2024
In relationships, many women unintentionally overcommit to men who haven’t fully committed to them. It’s important to maintain self-respect and boundaries until there’s a legal or religious bond of marriage. Here are five things you should never do for a man unless he becomes your husband:
- Never Let Go of a Career or Educational Opportunity
Your ambitions and dreams should never be put on hold for someone who hasn’t married you. Whether it’s studying abroad, accepting a new job, or pursuing a passion, your growth is your priority.
A man who genuinely loves you will encourage you to chase your dreams and won’t ask you to sacrifice them for his convenience. Remember, staying for someone who hasn’t committed could lead to regrets.
- Never Move in with Him
Living together often blurs the lines of commitment, making you act like a wife without the title.
It’s fine to visit, but don’t take on the responsibilities of cooking, cleaning, or managing his household. Save that effort for marriage, where it’s mutually understood and respected.
- Never Give Him Your Life Savings or a Lump Sum
Helping out with small financial needs is okay, but never compromise your financial stability for a man who hasn’t vowed to spend his life with you.
Dreams can wait; your security cannot. A supportive partner will understand your boundaries and wouldn’t risk your financial future.
- Never Abandon Your Friends for Him
Your friends are a vital part of your support system. A healthy relationship allows you to maintain your friendships without guilt.
Never isolate yourself from loved ones because of a man. Balance your relationship and friendships, ensuring you still have time for the people who’ve always been there for you.
- Never Get Pregnant for Him
Unplanned pregnancies often lead to complex situations, especially when there’s no formal commitment.
Don’t assume a child will solidify your relationship. Protect yourself with birth control and don’t let anyone pressure you into a situation you’re not ready for. Children deserve a stable, committed environment.
In Conclusion
Relationships are beautiful, but they thrive on mutual respect and understanding. Until a man commits to you legally or spiritually, maintain your boundaries, prioritize your growth, and respect yourself.
You are worth more than temporary compromises—wait for the commitment you deserve.
