Embarking on a new chapter in life, such as marriage, often brings immense joy and excitement.

Common mistakes married couples make [Image: Danie James]

However, there are some common pitfalls that some married women may encounter at the beginning of a marriage. Here are some potential mistakes to be mindful of:

. Taking on all the housework without seeking help: It’s easy to fall into traditional gender roles, but a healthy marriage involves shared responsibilities.

It’s essential to communicate openly about expectations regarding household chores and to work together to create a fair division of labor.

2. Inviting people into the marriage too early: Building a strong foundation for your marriage is necessary, and involving too many external opinions or introducing complex issues too early can add unnecessary stress

It’s important to prioritize the bond between you and your partner before seeking advice or input from others.

3. Trying too hard to please in-laws: While it’s natural to want to get along with your in-laws, it’s essential to establish boundaries and not compromise your well-being to please others.

Striking a balance between maintaining a positive relationship with your in-laws and asserting your own needs is key.

4. Neglecting self-care: It’s easy to get caught up in the demands of a new marriage, but it’s important to prioritize self-care.

Neglecting your own needs can lead to burnout and potentially strain the relationship. Taking time for personal hobbies, friendships, and relaxation is essential for overall well-being.

Each partner should feel comfortable expressing their needs and concerns, and both should work together to build a healthy, supportive relationship. Marriage is a journey that requires continuous effort from both individuals involved.